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Success is in your hands, attract it by Priya Deelchand
Success
is in your hands, attract it
by
Priya Deelchand
Success means different
things to different individuals. It comes in many different forms and the idea
of being successful for one person might not be the same as for another person.
In fact, there are as many definitions of success as there are people on this
planet. For instance, if you are a businessman, success may mean being among
the top 10 companies in your industry and if you are a student, success may
mean getting distinctions and coming first in your exams. According to Earl
Nightingale, "Success is the progressive realization of a worthy
ideal." It is therefore very important for each one of us to define
clearly what success means to us.
If we want to be successful
in our life, then the very first thing we should do is to take the time to
decide exactly what success means to us. Clarity is the first step for
deliberately attracting the success we desire in our life. Success is a
multifaceted personal concept. By defining what the idea of success represents
to us and by taking the time to write it down, we will automatically move our
life in that direction. Robert Collier was right when he said "The great
successful men of the world have used their imagination. They think ahead and
create their mental picture in all its details, filling in here, adding a
little there, altering this a bit and that a bit, but steadily building -
steadily building."
Let us say that success to
us means becoming an outstanding manager. Most of the time, many people find it
very difficult to know exactly what they want as an outstanding manager. One of
the best ways to become clear is to make a list of things that we do not want
as an outstanding manager. The more things we put in our list, the clearer we
become. We do not have to focus on what we do not want to attract but just
examine briefly what we do not want. Once we have made a list of around 40 to
50 things that we do not like, we proceed by making the list of things that we
do want as an ideal manager. The things that we want are the exact opposite of
the things that we do not want. For example, I do not want to be a manager who
is not respected by my team will be replaced by I want to be a manager who is
highly respected by my team. I do not want to take wrong decisions will be
replaced by I always take the right decisions in all situations.
The second step to
deliberately attract success is to raise our vibration. We must always bear in
mind that we do not get what we want but we get what we vibrate. We must therefore
become a "vibrational match" to what we want in order to attract what
we truly desire. One way to raise our vibration is to act as if we are already
successful and start experiencing how we would be feeling if we had already
achieved the success we wanted, how joyful we would feel and how happy and
excited we would be as a result of achieving the success we desire. We can also
use affirmations or use phrases like "I am very successful now." to
raise our vibration to attract the success we desire in our life. We can also
use visualization and see ourselves already experiencing the success we want.
The third step for
deliberate attraction is to allow success to manifest in our life. Allowing is
the absence of doubt and fear. If we have a strong desire to be successful but
at the same time, we have strong doubts, we will never be able to attract what
we want because we will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If, on the
other hand, we have a strong desire and some doubts, we will attract success,
but it will take a little longer. If we want to rapidly manifest success, we
have to have a strong desire with no doubt at all.
We all deserve to be
successful in life and whatever dreams we have, we all have the potential to
achieve them as absolutely nothing is impossible. We just have to follow the
great advice of Walt Disney, who rightly said, "If you can dream it, you
can do it."
Priya Deelchand is the founder and Managing Director of
Success Strategies Consultants Ltd. Since December 2008, Priya has been working
as a Life and Corporate Coach with
clients in USA and
Europe providing guidance on
personal and professional development
and helping them
maximise their potentials to achieve growth and success. Priya also
conducts several Workshops in Mauritius on leadership, peak performance, emotional intelligence, success principles, self-esteem
and motivation for corporate and individual clients.
She holds a Master in Management from L'Ecole Supérieure
de Commerce de Toulouse (Toulouse Business School), France and an Undergraduate
degree in Economics from Université des Sciences Sociales de Toulouse, France.
Priya is also a Certified Law of Attraction Practitioner from The Law of
Attraction Training Center, USA and a registered MQA Trainer in the field of
Management.
For more information about workshops and coaching
sessions, contact Success Strategies Consultants Ltd on +230 696 9998 or +230 758 0695
Tuesday, May 28, 2013
50 Success Quotes to Inspire and Motivate You by Priya Deelchand
We are glad to offer you our ebook 50 Success Quotes to Inspire and Motivate You.
Email us on success@successstrategiesconsultants.com and we will send you the ebook.
Wednesday, January 30, 2013
You Have a Chance
Charles Revson, founder of the successful cosmetic manufacturing
firm Revlon, once said, "In our factory we make lipstick. In our
advertising, we sell hope."
We could use a little more hope. I think that is why people buy
lottery tickets. One poor mother, who was raising her children on a
small salary earned from long hours of hard work, was asked, "Why do
you waste your money on a lottery ticket when you can hardly make
ends meet?"
"Yeah, I buy a ticket every day," the woman acknowledged. "But a
dollar is not too much to pay for 24 hours of hope."
There are probably better uses for her money than buying lottery
tickets. But she would rather hang onto a little hope than onto her
dollar.
We need hope. It is a vital ingredient in life. Without it, far too
many people come to the conclusion that they are powerless in the
face of difficulties. "It can't be helped," is their motto. Without
hope, they won't make needed changes. They feel powerless. Without
hope, they will grimly accept the unacceptable and believe that
things are about as good as they will ever get.
I've found that I can either be a prisoner of circumstances or a
practitioner of hope. I can feel sorry for myself and helpless to do
anything about my problems, or I can believe there is a realistic
chance for something better.
Norman Cousins, in his book Head First, the Biology of Hope,
illustrates the power of hope. He tells of two physicians who were
to deliver a paper at a national meeting of cancer specialists. One
was truly perplexed. "I don't understand it, Bob," he said. "We use
the same drugs, the same dosage, and the same schedule of treatment.
Yet I get a 22% recovery rate and you get a 74% recovery rate. How
do you explain that?"
The other responded, "We both use Etoposide, Platinol, Oncovin, and
Hydroxyurea. You put those letters together and tell people that you
are giving them E-P-O-H. I put them together and explain to them
that they are receiving H-O-P-E. I emphasize that they have a
chance."
You do have a chance. You have a chance at life. You have a chance
at success. You have a chance at wholeness. You have a chance at
meaningful relationships and, though you may not believe it, at
happiness.
Are you a prisoner of circumstances . stuck and helpless, or a
practitioner of hope? It can be a difference between life and death.
-- Steve Goodier
Posted by Priya Deelchand
firm Revlon, once said, "In our factory we make lipstick. In our
advertising, we sell hope."
We could use a little more hope. I think that is why people buy
lottery tickets. One poor mother, who was raising her children on a
small salary earned from long hours of hard work, was asked, "Why do
you waste your money on a lottery ticket when you can hardly make
ends meet?"
"Yeah, I buy a ticket every day," the woman acknowledged. "But a
dollar is not too much to pay for 24 hours of hope."
There are probably better uses for her money than buying lottery
tickets. But she would rather hang onto a little hope than onto her
dollar.
We need hope. It is a vital ingredient in life. Without it, far too
many people come to the conclusion that they are powerless in the
face of difficulties. "It can't be helped," is their motto. Without
hope, they won't make needed changes. They feel powerless. Without
hope, they will grimly accept the unacceptable and believe that
things are about as good as they will ever get.
I've found that I can either be a prisoner of circumstances or a
practitioner of hope. I can feel sorry for myself and helpless to do
anything about my problems, or I can believe there is a realistic
chance for something better.
Norman Cousins, in his book Head First, the Biology of Hope,
illustrates the power of hope. He tells of two physicians who were
to deliver a paper at a national meeting of cancer specialists. One
was truly perplexed. "I don't understand it, Bob," he said. "We use
the same drugs, the same dosage, and the same schedule of treatment.
Yet I get a 22% recovery rate and you get a 74% recovery rate. How
do you explain that?"
The other responded, "We both use Etoposide, Platinol, Oncovin, and
Hydroxyurea. You put those letters together and tell people that you
are giving them E-P-O-H. I put them together and explain to them
that they are receiving H-O-P-E. I emphasize that they have a
chance."
You do have a chance. You have a chance at life. You have a chance
at success. You have a chance at wholeness. You have a chance at
meaningful relationships and, though you may not believe it, at
happiness.
Are you a prisoner of circumstances . stuck and helpless, or a
practitioner of hope? It can be a difference between life and death.
-- Steve Goodier
Posted by Priya Deelchand
A Very Human Thing to Do
Someone made the statement: "To err is dysfunctional, to forgive
co-dependent." Sometimes I think I operate that way - afraid to err
and slow to forgive.
Of course, we've all heard Alexander Pope's famous assertion that to
err is human, to forgive, divine. But I don't agree. I think that to
forgive is one of the most human things we can do.
A number of years ago, Hildegard Goss-Mayr of the "International
Fellowship of Reconciliation" told this true story. In the midst of
tragic fighting in Lebanon in the 1970s, a Christian seminary
student was walking from one village to the next when he was
ambushed by an armed Druze guerrilla fighter. The Druze ordered his
captive down a mountain trail where he was to be shot.
But an amazing thing happened. The seminarian, who had received
military training, was able to surprise his captor and disarm him.
Now, the table was turned, and it was the Druze who was ordered down
the trail.
As they walked, however, the student of theology began to reflect on
what was happening. Recalling the words of his scripture, "Love your
enemies," "do good to those who hate you," "turn the other cheek,"
he found he could go no farther. He threw the gun into the bushes,
told the Druze he was free to go and turned back up the hill.
Minutes later, he heard footsteps running behind him as he walked.
"Is this the end after all?" he wondered. Perhaps the young man had
retrieved his weapon and meant to finish him off. But he continued
on, never glancing back, until his enemy reached him, only to grab
him in an embrace and pour out thanks for sparing his life.
That was a very human thing he did - foregoing the impulse to strike
back. It took a strong spirit. Yet every time we decide not to get
back at somebody who hurts us, we exercise one of our greatest
powers - the power to choose a better way.
Somebody else put it better than I can: "Life is too short for drama
and petty things, so, kiss slowly, laugh insanely, love truly and
forgive quickly." It's one of the most powerful and human things to
do.
-- Steve Goodier
Posted by Priya Deelchand
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